This habit that makes your friends Away

As social animals, we are unable to prevent themselves from the life of society. We will communicate with many people, in need of others, and cannot live alone.

We need parents, we need friends, we need a brother, we also need your spouse's life. But what would happen if the fault of our own, we thus shunned the people around us? They become lazy was near us, grateful for the time we had nothing, not even want to know about us. Na'udzubillaah.

For that, we should avoid a few things here. Because it turns out that these things can keep us from the nearest people around us.

1. Many Lie

Who would want to being lied to? Certainly no one in this world that is willing to given the lie by others. Especially if that person is the one closest to you is a very loved and trusted. The result of someone who often lie is the minimal trust and will also be shunned by the people around him. It feels sad once, huh?

To that end, Shun the culture and hobby of lying. Suppose that we do to others is what might we will receive. If we do not like being lied to, then don't ever lie to other people. If we do not want shunned other people, then don't we have ever hurt them by lying.

2. Rough Talk

In addition to the lie, the rant either consciously or not, out of our mouths, it can be the cause of us shunned others. Who is comfortable, if there are people who say rude to her? Surely you not liking it.

To that end, avoid saying rude or yelling something to other people, especially in older people. In addition to demean ourselves because it would be judged immodest, men will be uncomfortable and slowly receding from us.

3. Selfish

mutual helpfulness and respect for others is the attitude of the well-loved in the community. It is visible from the sincerity he in his lifetime, of which, slowly many people converted to Islam. That's why, we have to be as strong as possible away from the attitude of selfish or self-serving.

A selfish person always felt that his dealings are most important than the interests of others. As long as his needs are met, he's no matter on what other people experienced. He could have asked other people helping him, but the turn he asked for please other people, he didn't want to do it.

Well, who's comfortable if it is near a person like that? Fair enough, then if we are selfish then others will stay away from us.

4. The arrogant

The attitude of arrogant, ultimately could be a character. And if it becomes a character, then someone is going to be difficult to remove it from my life. Someone who is haughty will feel he is the most wonderful, most felt he could, and no one else is able to defeat him. Vanity can push us to shirk even na'uddzubillah became an apostate.

Like Pharaoh's arrogance, who feels that he is the most fabulous, until then he confessed himself is God. And God punished him with wrath and destroy it along with his followers without exception. Do not let the other person away from us because of our arrogance that fertilizer inside. If it feels shunned person alone was painful, especially if we turn away from God right?

Well, that's the last four things that most often make others feel uncomfortable is all around us. Because we realize our status as social animals, it has become imperative for us to maintain good relations with those around us so that created the comfort among us with them.